Please join Shane Wilson for a comprehensive seven-week 

Grief Recovery Method. 

A one- on-one personalized program

that can be done live in the Phoenix AZ area or online world-wide.

 

Book your own appointment now, or call today to talk.

The Grief Recovery Center of Mesa

1030 W. 9th Street, Mesa AZ 85201

shanewilson.org/grief-recovery

480-513-7747

For costs visit: https://www.shanewilson.org/services-and-fees 

 

Grief is not just about death!

The list below is the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale for Adults * (there are additional scales for seniors and children/teenagers). This is a numerical ranking scale looking at stressors which can trigger grief. It is entirely possible that one or more of these events is at the heart of your pain, poor health, relational issues, and so much more. 

It does not cover such events as sexual assault or anything associated with sexuality, domestic violence, runaway children or pet loss, which also affect us for a lifetime unless we make choices and take action to “complete” these losses.

The Grief Recovery Method is a proven, step-by-step process for moving beyond the emotional pain of loss. It’s designed to help people deal not only with past and current issues regarding the stress of grief, but also to provide the tools to deal with future issues, as they develop.

  • Death of a spouse

  • Divorce

  • Marital separation

  • Imprisonment

  • Death of a close family member

  • Personal injury or illness

  • Marriage

  • Dismissal from work

  • Marital reconciliation

  • Retirement

  • Change in health of family member

  • Pregnancy

  • Sexual difficulties

  • Gain a new family member

  • Business readjustment

  • Change in financial state

  • Death of a close friend

  • Change to different line of work

  • Change in frequency of arguments

  • Major mortgage

  • Foreclosure of mortgage or loan

  • Change in responsibilities at work

  • Child leaving home

  • Trouble with in-laws

  • Outstanding personal achievement

  • Spouse starts or stops work

  • Begin or end school

  • Change in living conditions

  • Revision of personal habits

  • Trouble with boss

  • Change in working hours or conditions

  • Change in residence

  • Change in schools

  • Change in recreation

  • Change in church activities

  • Change in social activities

  • Minor mortgage or loan

  • Change in sleeping habits

  • Change in number of family reunions

  • Change in eating habits

  • Vacation

  • Christmas

  • Minor violation of law

  • To this, we also feel that it is important to add: Loss of Trust, Loss of Approval, Loss of Safety, Loss of Faith and Loss of Control of my body

* In 1967, Dr. Thomas Holmes and Dr. Richard Rahe, both psychiatrists, researched the medical records of 5000 patients to look at the correlation between their levels of emotional stress and their illnesses. They created the Social Readjustment Rating Scale, also known as the Holmes Rahe Stress Scale, which was used as a scoring mechanism, to rate the various stress indicators as part of their study. This list, commonly known as the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale, is considered a definitive ranking system.

 

 

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